Couples & Relationship

Therapy

Are you struggling in your relationship? Do you feel disconnected, unheard, or stuck in the same painful patterns? Relationship therapy can help you communicate better, rebuild trust, and rekindle intimacy.

Is Couples Therapy Right for You?

You may benefit from relationship counseling if:

  • Arguments are becoming more frequent, and you're feeling unseen or misunderstood

  • Emotional distance is growing, and you're unsure how to reconnect

  • Your sex life has drastically declined, leaving you frustrated

  • You feel stuck in negative cycles and need guidance to break free

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. I’ve helped hundreds of couples over the past decade heal, reconnect, and create fulfilling relationships.

Why Choose Me as Your Relationship Therapist?

I combine therapy, coaching, and education to help couples transform their relationships. Trained and mentored by renowned couples therapy experts Dr. Ellyn Bader and Dr. Peter Pearson, I specialize in helping couples break unhelpful patterns and build stronger connections.

In-Person Couples Therapy in Denver

My office is located in the Highlands Northwest area of Denver, Colorado—easily accessible for couples seeking face-to-face support.

Online Relationship Therapy

I also provide virtual counseling for couples across Colorado and California.

Common Relationship Struggles I Help Couples Overcome

Communication Problems

  • Do conversations often lead to frustration instead of understanding?

  • Do you feel lonely or disconnected even when you're together?

  • Are you stuck in the same negative cycle, unable to move forward?

When communication breaks down, trust and closeness suffer. I help couples navigate these roadblocks, so you can communicate effectively and reconnect emotionally.

Sex & Intimacy Issues

  • Has your sex life become non-existent or unsatisfying?

  • Do you struggle to express your desires?

  • Are there mismatched needs affecting your relationship?

Sexual intimacy naturally changes over time, but it's essential to talk openly and ask for what you need. Relationship therapy helps you feel heard, rebuild intimacy, and reignite desire.

What to Expect From Couples Therapy

Starting couples therapy can feel overwhelming, but it’s a safe space to heal, grow, and reconnect. Here’s what you can expect from me:

  • Direct, actionable feedback to improve your communication

  • Guided conversations that help you break negative patterns

  • A structured process for rebuilding trust, intimacy, and emotional connection

With the right support, your relationship can thrive again.

Get Started With Relationship Counseling in Denver

If you're ready to improve your relationship, I'm here to help.

Safety

My specialty is working with gay male couples.  However, I do enjoy working with all types of relationships, especially with other LGBTQ+ folks and those in open or polyamorous relationships.  The best way to find out whether we're a fit is to reach out and schedule a free consultation. I'll be honest with you about whether I feel I can help or not and happy to give other referrals if we're not a fit.

Whatever your relationship structure, my aim is to make you feel welcome and understood, though, at times, I will challenge you.

I know it can be intimidating to start the process of couples therapy, however often times people will find relief soon and begin the journey to a happier more satisfying relationship.

I’m ready for relationship counseling but I still have some questions and concerns…

I’m not sure my partner will come to therapy. 

It’s true that you can’t make your partner come in for therapy if they’re not willing.  If this is a concern for you, set up a consultation with me and we can strategize what the best plan of action may be.  Perhaps if you lay out why this step is important for your relationship your partner will listen.

What if counseling makes things worse? 

It is a common concern that bringing things up in couples counseling may make things worse.  You are certainly not alone in that fear.  However, by speaking the truth and learning new tools you can have tough conversations and heal the past.

What if it doesn’t work? 

Yes, it’s scary to think about what if couples therapy doesn’t make things better.  It’s a big commitment and investment of time and energy.  For a thought experiment, think for a moment about what it will be like if couples counseling DOES work.   Imagine how much stronger your relationship can become.  Imagine if you stop having that same fight and you can be close and connected.

You can heal your relationship

While it will take commitment, you can improve the way you talk to each other, increase intimacy, and gain tools to have the relationship you crave.